{"id":1341,"date":"2012-01-05T14:55:15","date_gmt":"2012-01-05T20:55:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/?p=1341"},"modified":"2023-10-13T22:32:33","modified_gmt":"2023-10-14T03:32:33","slug":"a-year-in-review-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/blog\/2012\/01\/05\/a-year-in-review-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"A Year in Review&#8230;2011&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I used to fill out this year-end survey every year, but haven&#8217;t done it for a few years now.  It cropped up again in a few places and I thought instead of banging my head against the wall trying to compose a coherent post, I&#8217;d just dump this here and be done with it.<\/p>\n<p>Because I am all about efficiency.<\/p>\n<p>Or laziness.<\/p>\n<p>Or something.<\/p>\n<p>As it turns out, 2011 (which I inevitably type as 2001 about six times before I get it right) was The Year Of The House.  In case you didn&#8217;t already know that.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p><b>1. What did you do in 2011 that you\u2019d never done before?<\/b><br \/>\nWe bought a house with NO MORE ROOMATES.  That pretty much sums up my entire year.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Did you keep your new year\u2019s resolutions and will you make more for next year?<\/b><br \/>\nI don&#8217;t make resolutions.  I don&#8217;t need an annual holiday to guilt me into making lofty goals that I will never bother completing only to feel greater shame for myself in the end.  Because that&#8217;s what making resolutions ultimately does to just about everyone who makes them.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Did anyone close to you give birth?<\/b><br \/>\nPeggy had her daughter Avery in January.  I didn&#8217;t actually meet her until Christmas.  But I want to squish her and cuddle her because she is an absolutely adorable little butterball.<\/p>\n<p><b>4. Did anyone close to you die?<\/b><br \/>\nBob&#8217;s grandma died and while neither of us was &#8220;close&#8221; to her, it was still very sad.<\/p>\n<p><b>5. What countries did you visit?<\/b><br \/>\nI finally took Bob to my grandma&#8217;s out in farm country.  Does that count?<\/p>\n<p><b>6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?<\/b><br \/>\nA king-size bed.  Material and probably selfish, yes.  But we need a new&#8230;BIGGER&#8230;bed.<\/p>\n<p><b>7. What dates from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory and why?<\/b><br \/>\nMay 12th&#8230;we took possession of our house.<br \/>\nMay 15th&#8230;we moved into our house.<br \/>\nAugust 12th&#8230;we CLOSED on our house.<\/p>\n<p><b>8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?<\/b><br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know if I really consider it an &#8220;achievement&#8221; but I went off all my medications in May and I&#8217;ve been (arguably) stable since.  I don&#8217;t know if I consider it an achievement because the jury is still out on the state of my unmedicated brain.<\/p>\n<p><b>9. What was your biggest failure?<\/b><br \/>\nI went off my medications and I gained 45 pounds.  I have now gained back all of the weight I lost four+ years ago and appear to keep gaining.  Apparently the only thing maintaining my weight for all that time was the handful of pills I swallowed everyday.<\/p>\n<p><b>10. Did you suffer illness or injury?<\/b><br \/>\nI live everyday with chronic illness.<\/p>\n<p><b>11. What was the best thing you bought?<\/b><br \/>\nOur house, the living room furniture, Star Wars&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>12. Where did most of your money go?<\/b><br \/>\nThe house.  Oh ye gods buying a house and moving is so bloody expensive.<\/p>\n<p><b>13. What did you get really excited about?<\/b><br \/>\nMoving into our own place WITH NO MORE ROOMMATES.  And having my own kitchen.<\/p>\n<p><b>14. What song will always remind you of 2011?<\/b><br \/>\nThis is always an impossible question.  I can&#8217;t really pick one song that stands out over everything else.<\/p>\n<p><b>15. Compared to this time last year, are you&#8230;<\/b><br \/>\n<b><i>&#8230;happier or sadder?<\/b><\/i> Happier. NO MORE ROOMMATES.<br \/>\n<b><i>&#8230;thinner or fatter?<\/i><\/b> Fatter. Oh my god so much fatter.<br \/>\n<b><i>&#8230;richer or poorer?<\/i><\/b> Considering all of the house buying and moving expenses, poorer, but we&#8217;re finally rebounding from that.<\/p>\n<p><b>16. What do you wish you\u2019d done more of?<\/b><br \/>\nOrganizing my house.<\/p>\n<p><b>17. What do you wish you\u2019d done less of?<\/b><br \/>\nGaining weight.  Holy crap.<\/p>\n<p><b>18. How did you spend Christmas?<\/b><br \/>\nChristmas Eve with my family (and Mom&#8217;s family).  Christmas Day with Bob&#8217;s family.  The next day with my family again so we could see Hunter who was (sadly) forced to spend both days of Christmas with his mother.<\/p>\n<p><b>19. What was your favorite TV program?<\/b><br \/>\nWe started watching <b><i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt1548850\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Misfits<\/a><\/i><\/b> on Hulu.  Pretty funny and wildly inappropriate.<\/p>\n<p><b>20. What were your favorite books of the year?<\/b><br \/>\nTo my recollection I did not read a single book in its entirety.  Not for lack of trying but my attention span will just not allow it.<\/p>\n<p><b>21. What was your favorite music from this year?<\/b><br \/>\n3 Doors Down, Matt Nathanson, and Ingram Hill all released new albums.  My iTunes play counts make this glaringly obvious.<\/p>\n<p><b>22. What were your favorite films of the year?<\/b><br \/>\nBob and I have seen probably five movies in the theater in the four years we&#8217;ve been together and we don&#8217;t have Netflix.  Which apparently makes us a devastating anomaly to be scoffed at by the general public.  I liked the latest X-Men movie.  But probably mostlly because James McAvoy is pretty.<\/p>\n<p><b>23. What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?<\/b><br \/>\nI turned 32&#8230;dang.  It was a Saturday, it snowed, we ordered pizza, ate cake, and I did as little as possible.<\/p>\n<p><b>24. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?<\/b><br \/>\nNot gaining 45 pounds.<\/p>\n<p><b>25. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2011?<\/b><br \/>\nLazy.  If I don&#8217;t leave the house I wear pajama pants and mostly look like I just fell out of bed even though I do actually shower everyday.<\/p>\n<p><b>26. What kept you sane?<\/b><br \/>\nBob, music, my kitchen, and my quiet house.<\/p>\n<p><b>27. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011.<\/b><br \/>\nDon&#8217;t rely on roommates to do their part when you move out of a place.  You&#8217;re likely to get thrown under a bus.<\/p>\n<p>Buying a house will shave a few years off your life.  And don&#8217;t get attached to any prospective dwelling until you have the keys in your hand.  You&#8217;re likely to get your heart broken.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to fill out this year-end survey every year, but haven&#8217;t done it for a few years now. It cropped up again in a few places and I thought instead of banging my head against the wall trying to compose a coherent post, I&#8217;d just dump this here and be done with it. Because I am all about efficiency. Or laziness. Or something. As it turns out, 2011 (which I inevitably type as 2001&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/blog\/2012\/01\/05\/a-year-in-review-2011\/\" class=\"readmore\">Keep reading&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Year in Review&#8230;2011&#8230;<\/span><span class=\"fa fa-angle-double-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","iawp_total_views":3,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,61,6,183],"tags":[225],"class_list":["post-1341","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-as-i-know-it","category-meme-used-to-mean-something-else","category-this-is-my-brain-and-welcome-to-it","category-year-in-review","tag-225","content-layout-excerpt-thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1341","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1341"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1341\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6768,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1341\/revisions\/6768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1341"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1341"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1341"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}