{"id":3963,"date":"2015-11-21T22:05:14","date_gmt":"2015-11-22T04:05:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/?p=3963"},"modified":"2025-01-03T01:11:30","modified_gmt":"2025-01-03T07:11:30","slug":"so-stay-its-okay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/blog\/2015\/11\/21\/so-stay-its-okay\/","title":{"rendered":"So stay&#8230;it&#8217;s okay&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1.) The beginning of this week was sixty degrees. It snowed on Thursday. (Barely a dusting that didn&#8217;t last but it still snowed.) Today didn&#8217;t even get above freezing.  Oh hey, Minnesota.  You finally figured out it&#8217;s November.<\/p>\n<p>2.) On a recent stop at Chipotle, we saw <b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm3182094\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Chris Colfer...is effing adorable...\" rel=\"noopener\">Chris Colfer&#8217;s<\/a><\/b> teenage doppelganger.  I noticed him standing in line and had to do a double-take because his profile was so distinctly similar it was bizarre.  I wanted to point him out to Bob, but couldn&#8217;t figure out a way to be subtle about it.  When we got home, one of the first things he said to me was, &#8220;Did you see that kid in line that looked <i>just like<\/i> that kid from <i>Glee<\/i>?&#8221;  It&#8217;s like he knows me.  Not-Chris-Colfer sat awkwardly at a table with two teenage girls (who were not eating anything and just giggling and smiling) and it took all I had to not pat him on the head and pinch his cheeks and tell him how bloody adorable he was when we walked by on the way out.<\/p>\n<p>What.<\/p>\n<p>3.) Do you have any idea how difficult it is to find tennis shoes that aren&#8217;t freaking <i>DAY-GLO<\/i> colors?  I just want some decent shoes.  I don&#8217;t want people to see me from twelve miles off.  I needed a new pair of tennis shoes because the ones I have pre-date Bob, and they don&#8217;t have a whole lot of cushion left in them.  Cold weather is here and I&#8217;m gonna have to retire my Chucks for the season.  I managed to find a pair that are navy blue and white and have not a single spot of neon anything.  Yes, I realize the 80&#8217;s were <i>thirty years ago<\/i> and everything horrible eventually comes back in style, but seriously. Neon? Stop it.<\/p>\n<p>4.) Bob is currently in a <i>FFXIV<\/i> dungeon with music that reminds me so much of <i><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0187636\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Farscape\" rel=\"noopener\">Farscape<\/a><\/b><\/i> and now I want to rewatch <i>Farscape<\/i> again, even though we just rewatched the entire series last year.<\/p>\n<p>5.) Wednesday was November 18th.  That marks eight years since my first date with Bob.  One year for every hour we spent together sitting in that <i>Caribou<\/i> on a cold and snow-rainy Sunday afternoon.  He is the absolute best.<\/p>\n<p>6.) I made myself a yellow cake with chocolate fudge frosting for my birthday.  It came out a little dry.  Despite following the recipe, I think it baked too long.  But it&#8217;s covered in enough frosting to make up for it.  Someday I will find a good white\/vanilla\/yellow cake recipe that turns out right for me. (That doesn&#8217;t call for a whole dozen egg whites FFS.)<\/p>\n<p>7.) I am thirty-six years old.  What. The hell. (Hunter is going to be 18 in January and he&#8217;ll be exactly half my age. Auntie Sara is old.)<\/p>\n<p>8.) Sometimes I find myself sitting on writing ideas for a long time before they really manifest into something worth putting down on a page.  Then I spend even longer poking and prodding them, trying to spread them out into a full-fledged story.  More often than not, they end up in the <i>scenes without stories<\/i> pile because that singular idea doesn&#8217;t really fill out an entire plotline.  If I&#8217;m lucky, I find other ideas to combine them with to make something worth while.  The gears have been turning on some ideas that have been in the arsenal for quite awhile and I finally started putting words down on the page.  I&#8217;m not entirely sure where it&#8217;s going to take me, but it almost forced me out of bed at some ungodly hour to work on it.  I was unbelievably tired, so I did manage to get back to sleep instead, but sometimes <b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/scratch-ticket-lottery\/\" title=\"Scratch ticket lottery...\">giving in to the gremlin poking me in the brain pays off<\/a><\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>9.) It&#8217;s taken me about a year and a half to reach this milestone number, but progress is progress is progress. (See: <i>Giving in to the gremlin<\/i>.)<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/media\/blog\/2015pics\/fostered70k.png\" title=\"Seventy Thousand Words...\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Also, this song is still like a punch in the gut.<\/p>\n<p>Every.<\/p>\n<p>Damn.<\/p>\n<p>Time.<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/EZC8X5_NORI?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/center><br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/EZC8X5_NORI\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Train ... Bulletproof Picasso...\" rel=\"noopener\">Train &#8230; Bulletproof Picasso<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<table style=\"width:375px;border:1px solid #cccccc;vertical-align:middle;\">\n<tr>\n<td col style=\"width:60px;border:1px solid #cccccc;vertical-align:middle;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/media\/graphics\/headphones50.png\" title=\"now playing...\"><\/td>\n<td col style=\"width:315px;border:1px solid #cccccc;vertical-align:middle;\">To Be Loved<br \/>\nTrain<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1.) The beginning of this week was sixty degrees. It snowed on Thursday. (Barely a dusting that didn&#8217;t last but it still snowed.) Today didn&#8217;t even get above freezing. Oh hey, Minnesota. You finally figured out it&#8217;s November. 2.) On a recent stop at Chipotle, we saw Chris Colfer&#8217;s teenage doppelganger. I noticed him standing in line and had to do a double-take because his profile was so distinctly similar it was bizarre. I wanted&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/blog\/2015\/11\/21\/so-stay-its-okay\/\" class=\"readmore\">Keep reading&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">So stay&#8230;it&#8217;s okay&#8230;<\/span><span class=\"fa fa-angle-double-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8669,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/media\/blog\/2015pics\/fostered70k.png","fifu_image_alt":"Seventy Thousand Words...","iawp_total_views":2,"footnotes":""},"categories":[33,6,12,161,180,182],"tags":[222],"class_list":["post-3963","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haphazard-bullet-points","category-this-is-my-brain-and-welcome-to-it","category-writing","category-writing-fostered","category-writing-lightning-v1","category-writing-stephen-tyler","tag-222","content-layout-excerpt-thumb"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/media\/blog\/2015pics\/fostered70k.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3963","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3963"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3963\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9947,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3963\/revisions\/9947"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8669"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3963"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3963"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getalifebooks.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3963"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}